Season 2 Episode 4: Understanding Infidelity: Challenges and Breakthroughs with Dr. Monique Thompson What a great conversation in this episode! I speak with infidelity expert and psychotherapist Dr. Monique Thompson. With 24 years of experience and a specialization in betrayal trauma recovery, Dr. Thompson delineates her definition of cheating, focusing on non-consent within various relationship structures. The discussion covers predictors of infidelity, such as relationship dissatisfaction and inability to self-soothe, and emphasizes the importance of authentic communication. Thompson also highlights the significance of EMDR therapy for trauma recovery in relationships. The episode aims to help listeners understand the complex dynamics of infidelity and encourage authentic living in relationships. This is so helpful if you or anyone you know is moving through infidelity and the pain that comes with it. 00:00 Defining Cheating: The Role of Consent 02:00 Meet Dr. Monique Thompson: Infidelity Expert 05:36 Dr. Thompson's Journey into Infidelity Specialization 10:26 Understanding Infidelity: Consent and Non-Consent 19:43 Predictors of Infidelity and Self-Soothing 30:33 Financial Infidelity and Relationship Satisfaction 32:10 The Importance of Authentic Communication 35:38 Infidelity Recovery Workbook for Couples 43:33 Understanding and Using EMDR for Trauma 51:20 The Purpose of Relationships and Loneliness 01:00:36 Final Thoughts and Resources Connect with Dr. Thompson: Website Infidelity Recovery Workbook This is Relationships Reimagined. Join the conversation as we dive into a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships. ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? ?? Get Your Free Relationship Diversity Guide Get my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me?