This week’s episode is a little different! Today I am sharing a conversation with my girlfriend, Salena. We are giving you an inside look at the evolution of our relationship and how we have both discovered and came to terms with our queerness, navigated group sex, and STI convos. Enjoy! ?? TLDR; 4:19- How We Met14:49- Defining Our Queerness18:30- Opening Up32:27- Sexual Safety and STARS46:52- The Importance of Talking About It?? Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. ?? Resources mentioned: ? Evelin Dacker Stars Website- ?? Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia Get free shipping on my favorite toys!! ?? Find Us Online - Website - Credits - Host/Producer: Ellecia Paine - Editor/Producer: Danny Walters - Hosted on Buzzsprout About Us Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general. Listen in to the candid conversations that give you a peek into the inner lives of other non-monogamous folks. Hear how they've overcome challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and social scrutiny. And celebrate with them as they share all the reasons it's worth it to have relationships that don't fit in the box. Send us Fan Mail Support the show ?? Subscribe to Not A Monogamous Newsletter to stay up to date with new episodes and offerings from Ellecia. ?? Enjoying the show? The best way to thank us is by following and leaving a review or a note. And if you want more, join our! ?? Find Us Online ?? Website: ?? ?? Music: Composer/Author (CA): Oscar Lindstein STIM IPI: 572 393 237