What actually happens at sex-positive events? Cuddle parties? Consent circles? Erotic service? ?? In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I sit down with Jamie Love, Executive Director of Sex Positive World, to talk about the radical, healing, and totally human side of building sex-positive community. We cover: How to start a sex-positive space or community near youWhat consent really looks like (hint: it’s not just “yes or no”)Erotic service, safer sex talks, and the power of devotional touchWhat to expect at events like cuddle parties, massage-a-trois, and self-pleasure circlesJamie’s relationship style: when your community is your primary partnerThe truth about creating spaces that are inclusive, beginner-friendly, and deeply transformativeAnd what’s coming up at Polytopia 2025—Portland’s conference for polyamorous people, where I’ll be a featured speaker!If you’re curious about non-monogamy, ethical sluthood, radical consent, or how to make friends (and maybe lovers) outside the mainstream—this episode is for you.