If new relationship energy (NRE) can be intoxicating, how do we avoid falling in love with the potential of a person or the possibilty of a relationship? How do we separate the noble intention to grow together from the incidious wish that our partner will change? In this episode, Effy and Jackie celebrate the 50th episode, discuss why love distorts our view of the other person, and seemingly diminishes otherwise important factors into just-this-one-thing.