Tuesday Talks: Our Friends Play Without Us...Now What? Episode 111 In this Tuesday Talks episode, a listener shares that she and her husband have a couple they play with regularly — but when that couple recently played with someone else, she found herself feeling left out, hurt, and unsure how to handle it. Dan and Lacy unpack why these feelings are completely valid, while also explaining that unless there is a polyamorous or exclusive agreement in place, their friends didn’t do anything wrong. In the lifestyle, couples often build close connections while still having the freedom to explore with others. This episode offers practical advice on managing jealousy, keeping perspective, protecting the friendship, and having an open, honest conversation without placing blame. Dan and Lacy also share how to approach these moments with curiosity instead of insecurity, so one uncomfortable feeling doesn’t turn into unnecessary drama.