In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Dex about the benefits of the construction of the lifestyle bed over a perfect martini. “Thank you for giving me the opportunity to share about building a lifestyle bed. I've been fortunate and somewhat unique in that in the entire time in leather aside from the first month when I discovered it, I've been in a 24/7 with two different submissives. Both of those relationships have been enhanced by the lifestyle bed we discussed. My site is: My channels are: The Leather Journey @ Whips in the Dungeon @ General materials needed to construct a lifestyle bed using this design: iron bed rails bolt on style (use length for the mattress you own-75" twin/full; 80" queen/king) 4 4x4x8 for posts 5 2x8x8 mattress rails, pillow rail 4 2x6x8 canopy rails 5 or 6 1x4x8 ideally oak or pine with no knots for mattress rail slats Headboard/footboard designs (others only need imagination) St. Andrews Cross A Frame Ladder Back Footboard will require 1 or 2 more 2x6x8 Headboard will require 2x4x8 to asthetically match the footboard design Note the raised cage bed I described will not use iron bedrails, but will use the 1x2"s Lady Petra mentioned and a solid piece of plywood for the foundation to sit on. It will also have a 2x4 the length of the middle of the mattress foundation from headboard to footboard for support. in leather, Dex” The Kinky cocktail Hour is brought to you by Motorbunny, the best saddle style vibrator on the market today. Save $40 on your Motorbunny purchase with the code LADYPETRAPLAYGROUND at You can order the TechRing, "Where health meets pleasure" at using the code "KINKY" to save 15%. Put a ring on it!