A husband can't be bothered to bring his wife to orgasm. Why? It's too much work! His hand gets tired! A man is pretty sure his nephew is gay. The rest of the family is homophobic. How can he soften the ground with the family, and let him know he has support without outing or embarrassing him? On the Magnum, Dan welcomes comedian Mike Birbiglia to tackle a question about REM sleep disorder. Also Annie. A woman is willing to be a sub in the bedroom, but when her new boyfriend barks out orders in the kitchen, well, that's not cool! Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Download a free audiobook of your choice today at