A woman's boyfriend wants her to drug him, have her way with him and share him with her friends. He did this before with an ex, and loved it. She's intrigued, but cautious. Should she do it? A straight man is miffed when women act like they want to meet for a second time, but then disappear. Aren't women violating the consent culture contract when they do this? On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Arielle Domb- the intrepid journalist who visited a sex toy brothel in Berlin. Hear about her adventures into the future. Also, they take a call from a sex worker who worries that she and her co-workers are betraying women by faking orgasms for men's pleasure. A woman is VERY supportive of her trans son. He explained that he doesn't masturbate because his vagina gives him dysphoria. Is there a sex toy she could buy him? How involved should she get here? Q@Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, world traveller and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From foreplay to freysexuals, premature ejaculation to pegging and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, in this wicked, wicked world.