EPISODE 10: Interview with Ferrett Steinmetz. Ferrett is a long-time blogger, author and teacher, and was most recently the keynote speaker at the Beyond The Love Conference 2015 in Columbus, Ohio. Together we speak about the trials, tribulations and joys of “coming out” as polyamorous. We also discuss pro-active breakups, time management, long-distance polyamorous relationships, as well cheating, abuse and depression. Ferrett Steinmetz is popular on FetLife as an author of various relationship essays, and is the Nebula-nominated author of urban fantasy novels FLEX and THE FLUX.