Beloved repeat guest Dr. Alison Ash returns to discuss why so many people get stuck in their heads during sex. Insecurities, unresolved resentments, lack of confidence in sexual skills and more - Aly teaches us how to get out of our heads in bed while becoming our own best lover. We also answer a sex question about penis owners who have a fetish for wearing lingerie. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guest: Dr. Alison Ash is a sex and intimacy coach and educator, lecturer at Stanford University, author, and founder of Turn. ON.love. A champion for others overcoming shame and deepening pleasure, Aly helps her clients experience the kinds of sexual interactions and romantic relationships they long for. As a sociologist with a PhD from Stanford, Aly has a comprehensive understanding of the complex societal challenges that often lead to unsatisfying and disempowering sexual experiences. She also draws on her extensive training in the Hakomi method of psychotherapy as well as Somatica model of sex and intimacy coaching to support her clients to radically explore and courageously express themselves. Aly designs workshops, courses, and retreats and offers individuals and couples coaching to give others the tools to discover their desires and confidently pursue them. She invites you to Turn. ON pleasure, intimacy and love at Turn.