What are non-ejaculatory orgasms and why would a penis-owner want to learn how to do this? How does it lead to more full bodied or multi-orgasmic experiences? And how might it increase intimacy and sexual connection between partners? Shasta and Ian share all this plus tips on how to master these techniques. We also answer a sex question about dating someone who has never had sex before. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. About our guests: Shasta Townsend and Ian Lavalley are best-selling authors, married, BIPOC sex and relationship experts and are leading a global love movement based in ancient eastern thought, Indigenous wisdom and cutting-edge science.