What makes a deeply connected relationship work? Can couple's continue to have the best sex of their lives in long term relationships, and if so, what are some of the tools or creating and maintaining a fulfilling sex life? How does commitment including marriage affect things? What are some of the ways people can grow and nourish partnerships whether or not they "put a ring on it"? About our guests: Jef combines transformational coaching with emotional mastery, psychological integration, shadow work, and energetic attunement. He is a meme lord and a master level practitioner and teacher of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) and incorporates shadow integration and cognitive science into the methodology that he now trains practitioners in. He guides people in a process of intentional patterns of thought that invite internal unification, profound personal empowerment, and deep energetic/emotional hygiene. His vision is one of collective healing, harmonization and integration that is self replicating, just like a meme. Check out Jef’s work at and peep his memes on Fabienne is a Sex and Intimacy coach who specializes in helping penis-owners develop mastery over themselves through the window of their sexual energy, offering them the insight and perspective of a well-studied woman with a pussy. She helps people have better sex lives, helping them embody their sexual power with integrity through the use of ancient practices and therapeutic techniques based on modern day neuroscience. Her mission is to help people of all genders come into more understanding and respect of each other so that we can all evolve together while getting our needs met and having great sex.