I know what you're thinking. Missionary? Really? But hear me out, because I genuinely believe missionary might be the most underrated position in existence, and the reason most people are bored by it has nothing to do with the position itself. It has everything to do with what they're not doing in it. In this episode, I'm breaking down every missionary myth, sharing the techniques that actually work for clitoral stimulation during penetration, and answering your listener's questions on everything from G-spot orgasms to asking your partner to bend you over the kitchen table. Check out Magic Wand at shop. More Dr. Emily: Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5 Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to to apply! Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: X Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Chapters: 0:00 - Intro 1:03 - What's Actually Great About Missionary (That Most People Miss) 5:26 - Dispelling the Myth That Missionary Is Boring 8:21 - The CAT Technique: Best Missionary Position for Clitoral Stimulation 9:29 - Listener Question: Mental Block Around Trying New Positions 13:15 - Dispelling the Myth That Missionary Can't Be Kinky 13:28 - Listener Question: How to Ask Your Partner to Be More Dominant 18:27 - Dispelling the Myth That Vulva Owners Can't Orgasm in Missionary 19:02 - Listener Question: Clitoral vs. Penetrative Orgasms & the G-Spot Explained 23:32 - Listener Question: How to Use a Vibrator During Missionary Without the Bulk 26:06 - A Note to People Pleasers: Your Pleasure Matters Too