Please also ensure you subscribe to us on all the platforms that we are available! We're still working on distribution so we KNOW we aren't officially everywhere yet but we hope to be soon. We defined Cheating, Infidelity, Jealousy & the fake word Compersion Yes, you can cheat on someone even if you are non-monog. Once you violate the rules of the relationship, that is cheating. Eg: your partner says no kissing other people when they are not there and you do it. Relationship rules apply to both monog and non-monog relationships. Each couple decides what those rules are with some skewing more “normal” and “standard” while others break down certain behaviours etc that they are not comfortable with We share details about our personal experiences with cheating (Jhen), Jealousy (both of us) and Compersion Our advice might not work for you but the most important thing to do is COMMUNICATE and do some serious self-reflection.