We defined a whole bunch of terms on the detailed show notes Sham initiates a multiple experience using care and precision and then carefully thrusting the other woman's vagina on his wife's face (He says that's not exactly what he said on the programme but Jhen is a paraphrasing genius and she wrote this bit) Jhen initiates a multiple experience by telling them she wants to be the gunman in their hole (She didn't ACTUALLY say this but it was implied) Hedonism II is like THE most popular resort for sexy stuff in the world Caligula and Chemistry are the two sex/swingers clubs we mentioned in NYC In South Florida we mentioned Miami Velvet & The Trapeze Young Swingers Week was in Jamaica at Hedo in October 2019. Here is the twitter of the couple we found that seems to run/be heavily involved in it Mocha Fest is a black alternative lifestyle festival that's going to be in Jamaica Memorial Day Weekend 2020 Life on the Swingset hosts a sexy times getaway at the Desire Resorts - specifically the one in Mexico.