Staying connected and in-tune with your partner is often one of those things we think we are doing a fabulous job of, until something happens that makes us realize we've been slacking. In this episode of Sex on Your Terms, we explain the ways in which we work to put each other first, to flirt with one another, and to express our love languages to one another in order to court each other. The perfect episode for both lifestyle and monogamous couples to listen to together in order to examine how much effort is being exuded in the relationship.