SO how do you balance between flirting and aggressive, why do women seemingly have a free pass when it comes to consent? How do we fuck and have orgies and craziness at swingers parties without people feeling like shit and being the bad guy or gal. These or the topics we talk about. This all starts because of the double standard in the lifestyle and our individual that sent us the letter, was a victim of that double standard. Now he and is wife have set up codes to make sure it does not happen again.