EPISODE 199 Shai Fishman Open Love Experience Interview. Shai Fishman is the co-founder of Leveled Up Love, a thriving global Facebook community of over 8000 “open relators” around the world seeking to create secure, fulfilling, and sustainable non-monogamous relationships. He is the co-creator of the Secure Poly Collective™, a heart-centered support program for conscious open relating with exclusive live events each month, coaching with the best in the industry, and an array of tools and resources. In this episode, Shai and Kitty talk about Open Love Experience, a Platinum Level Retreat for Couples Curious About Consensual Nonmonogamy: