EPISODE 204: Interview with Nate Hockstra. Nate Hockstra is an expert on helping men find a meaningful relationship without using any "pick up" or game playing. He has helped countless men find companionship and love for a lifetime. He is a former coach for Tony Robbins, over 10 years experience, and has over 10,000 of coaching experience. He resides in San Diego with his lovely wife.