Lexi Sylver Interview. Lexi is the producer and host of the podcast "SDC Presents Seek, Discover, Create"; erotic writer and sexual health blogger for LexiSylver.com and SDC; adult toy entrepreneur, sexuality speaker and workshop presenter; and ambassador for shameless sexuality and healthy relationships. Lexi shares how she started out on a monogamous journey before finding it no longer worked for her, and how she now embraces being kinky, consensually non-monogamous, and childfree, with a message that sex should be shameless and free of judgment.