Dudes aren’t the only people who can exhibit toxic masculinity. Pre-woke comedian Elsa Waithe was a queer, butch f*ckboi once upon a time. But now she is a leader in the New York City activist movement, leading protests against racial oppression and anti-queer Trump antics. Activism even led her to Love in a fascinating Black Lives Matter meet cute. Hear her story and start making a protest sign! Check your privilege at the door—and roll your eyes at me if you must! ALSO: Dillon Birdsall has an exciting update about his documentary V-Card!

PLUS: racism, “girl clothes”, Facebook jail, gender, Proud Boys, and #MeToo apologies!