Men sometimes fall folly to the mantra, “Once a slut, always a slut.” It’s at the heart of most of the slut-shaming that occurs in this world. One slut I know has since hung up her scarlet letter—although she’s not certain she’ll stay retired forever. Anna SuperSlut named herself such while making a tear through New York City’s Tinder scene. “New York City is one of the best cities to be a slut in!” she shares on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. “There’re so many men to choose from.” But something caused the her to tone it down and focus on meaningful, loving relationships. It may not be the reason you think!

PLUS: intimacy, Baby Jew, platonic love, Open Love NY, grief, and Billy’s Dick Review!