“Most men aren’t confident enough to approach women on a train,” says comedian Eagle Witt. This week’s Manwhore Podcast guest stresses the difference between street harassment and real world flirtation. My guest believes that women will speak up when they want you to leave them alone. “A woman is not mute,” Witt insists. “She will turn you down—quickly. And when that happens, the most important thing is that’s it. Once you get turned down, disengage.” Two straight men discuss how women experience the world. How could this possibly go wrong?!

PLUS: slutty guys, nonmonogamy, advice, #PayForYourPorn, race, rape accusations, and self-slutshaming!