“Don’t you find that hosting a podcast about this stuff, we are just swimming in lube?” says Angela Spera, co-host of the hit dating show This Is Why You’re Single. And she’s right! After appearing on her and Laura Lane’s podcast a couple years ago, Spera joins me to discuss sex, dating, and men who steal toilet paper during dates. We both have faced the burden of dating while podcasting—or podcasting while dating?—and the difficulties of discerning what goes on the pod and what stays private. ALSO: Vanessa Cuccia, CEO of Chakrubs, co-hosts this week’s intro to tell me about her p*ssy crystals!