“I’m saying ‘husband’ and I’m having a queer experience,” recalls veteran podcaster Chemda of her marriage to a trans man. “As far as the world is concerned, when we’re out we have to deal with queerness…So I felt a little outside of the queer community while having to deal with a lot of the stuff they have to deal with.” The Keith and the Girl host opens up about her divorce and how dating a transgender man made her sexual identity clearer. ALSO: Jamie from The V Club co-hosts the intro to read some emails and talk about paying for porn!