Writer and activist Serena Daniari just wants to feel like a lady. She loves it when the guy says, “You’re trans? Cool. What kind of movies do you like?” Daniari’s Mic.com column Transplaining helps new trans gals (and guys! and people!) navigate their transitions. We talk about how gender is outdated and discuss Billy’s queer experiences on an all-new Manwhore Podcast! ALSO: Kendall Farrell tells me how he likes watching porn with two “straight” guys who have to hook up to prove how not gay they are!

PLUS: masculinity, hormone penis, detransitioning, dating, cancel culture, and nonbinary peoples!