It’s difficult—in a world where we don’t teach sex education and where we teach women to be subservient to a man’s desires —to accept that you were raped. It’s even more difficult when your husband keeps forgetting about it. Comedian Sarah Cooper discusses how she came to terms with her sexual assault as well as her new book How To Be Successful Without Hurting Men’s Feelings.

PLUS: cheating, corporate life, kissing, gender, Patreon, and seeming smart!