We catch you up on the past month or so of our lives and tell you how we came to have our first MFM, a wildly successful and sexy evening out where we found that reality can sometimes be just as good as fantasy. By unpredictable means, Jay goes alone to a house party hosted by the PLAYGRND crew in the DC area and has a note from home allowing him to get a blowjob. We discuss that, the aftermath and more. Kay's corner answers the questions, "How do I bring up the lifestyle without making my partner feel inadequate" and "How do I prepare my lady bits for the sun and fun in Desire"?