Do you think that there is a correlation between attachment style and one's propensity towards non-monogamy? How are our sex lives affected by our attachment styles? How those in a non-monogamous relationship can work towards secure attachment? Effy and Jacqueline are joined by Jessica Fern, a psychotherapist, public speaker, and trauma and relationship expert, and the author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy to discuss attachment styles and trauma and how they impact our relationship structures and sexuality. You can find Jessica Fern via her website On there, you can access her webinars and join her newsletter so that you get updates about her work and a notification of when her practice opens up to new clients.