On today’s show, Emily is joined by sex & relationship therapist Dr. Hernando Chaves to talk about why it’s important to think about sex differently – because it’s more than the old in and out. They discuss better ways to dive into backdoor play, why Valentine’s Day is the best time to jumpstart your bedroom resolutions and how to get over your sexual anxieties – because hey, we all have them. Follow Emily on all social: For more on Dr. Chaves, visit: For even more sex advice, tips & tricks