EPISODE 159: Interview with Dr. Ian Jenkins. Dr. Ian Jenkins is the author of "Three Dads and a Baby: Adventures in Modern Parenting", a debut memoir about his experiences trying to have a baby as part of a polyamorous gay "Throuple." The three men wanted to have a child, but the road to having a baby took them through embryo adoption, IVF and surrogacy, dealing with lawyers and doctors, enormous medical bills, questions about polyamorous parenting, and legal battles to get all 3 dads listed on the birth certificate (they were the first to do so). The book will be published March 9 and is available for pre-order on Amazon.